Will it Really Happen When it is Supposed To?!

by Ellie Walsh

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Do you believe these statements?

  • “It will happen when it is supposed to”
  • “It wasn’t supposed to happen right now”

Let me tell you what I think about those statements … They are BS BS – Bull Shit Belief Systems! They are totally dis-empowering statements!?? 😯

Where did we come up with these? People say them when something they wanted didn’t go they way they wanted it to.

We use those statements to soothe ourselves … but is it really soothing?! I’ve just claimed … that … I … I … really don’t have the power in my life! I just claimed that my life is like a leaf being tossed around by the wind! Does that really soothe you?!

Let me tell you when it is going to happen … it is going to happen when you line up with it! When you allow it into your experience! When you stop whatever BS belief system you have running around in your head! That is when it is going to happen!

And… many times if you had just hung on to your dream of it …. instead of rushing in with that judgment of “it wasn’t supposed to happen” … If you had just stayed with your dream …. instead of letting circumstances dictate your judgement! Who said it wasn’t in the process of happening? At what point is the “right” time to consider it gone?

The minute you utter either one of those statements …. you make a huge statement to the universe. You have given up on your dream … you have turned away from it! You are blowing in the wind … allowing the wind to take you where it wants … And know this … the wind will take you! Where? Wherever those BS Belief Systems point you!

Am I being too Harsh?

Harsh? … I am handing you back your power! I know you have the power to Have, Be or Do whatever you choose … And I know it takes self awareness to get you there. It takes self responsibility to get you there.

[wp9h_graphic id=”arrow7″ type=”arrows” align=”left” width=”60px” top=”0px” bottom=”2px” left=”0px” right=”0px”][/wp9h_graphic]? When something happens that you wanted – Do the Happy Dance and exclaim “I created that!”

[wp9h_graphic id=”arrow7″ type=”arrows” align=”left” width=”60px” top=”0px” bottom=”2px” left=”0px” right=”0px”][/wp9h_graphic]? When something happens that you didn’t want – Do the Happy Dance and exclaim “I created that!”

Now you are on the right track …? Now you are stopping the BS! Look at the situation as an opportunity …. Not because that is the gallant or so-called right way to be …? because – it is an opportunity! Now you know that you have some more self awareness to do in this area. That is good information to know!

That is not defeat … that is success!

If you succumb to those statements … you are feeding those BS Belief Systems. Those limiting old stories that have been holding you back. You are giving your power away.

Take a stand … Take a stand for You! You are a totally power-filled, magnificent creator … filled with dreams and desires that you absolutely deserve to live!

I’m not being Harsh …. I am honoring You!

Don’t you think it is time to bust out of the BS??? 😉


Ellie Walsh Living the Law of Attraction


"There are No Mistakes..... Only Discoveries!" TM ~ Ellie Walsh




1 Carol March 26, 2013 at 6:42 pm

Yes, I did think that, “Guess it just wasn’t supposed to happen” was soothing. But claiming the power is “empowering.” Good perspective.

2 william honsinger March 26, 2013 at 7:14 pm

yes I’ve said things like that and i’m conditioning myself to change my wording i’m working on having an out of body experience through meditation have you tried that yet please let me know if you have and if so your experience with it thank you for getting back to me sincerely William honsinger

3 Cali March 26, 2013 at 9:32 pm

YAY Ellie. Sooooo very true. Today was absolutely AMAZING because I finally decided to ditch the BS. For the past year I have created an INCREDIBLE life for myself, a beautiful home, an amazing career, a life I’m so very grateful for.

HOWEVER, on Christmas Day 2012 I found my DREAM HOME! This was IT, this was the ONE. I was convinced. So much so that I even ordered the address labels. **Hint Hint Universe. Well, after months of going by the house, taking photos of the outside, photos of me in front of it, I FINALLY took the plunge and contacted the agent. I had been hesitating because the house comes with a hefty price tag and I kept telling myself I couldn’t afford it, I would never qualify, all these limiting beliefs.

Then the other day I thought….You know…WHY NOT??? I deserve that house just as much as anyone else. Look at the life you’ve created in just one year Cali!! You CAN DO THIS. The agent called me this morning and asked when would you like to see it, no credit checks/financial questions, anything. I said ASAP! So she said, how about noon?

I spent one AMAZING hour touring MY home. I took my books, photographs, personal items and placed them around the house and had my photo taken in several rooms with MY things to make it feel more like MY house. I’m not sure HOW or WHEN, but that’s not my job is it? All I know is that with every ounce of my being, THIS is my home. Thanks Ellie.

4 Ellie March 26, 2013 at 10:32 pm

Hi Carol ….
We have been trained that BS (belief system) is soothing … and while it can make us feel better for a little while… The result of it is dis-empowering. So much better to step up and be empowered! 😀

5 Ellie March 26, 2013 at 10:38 pm

Hi William … Welcome!
Paying attention to our words is important … and what you want to add to that is paying attention to how you Feel… Your feelings are the indicator of the vibration you are sending out to the Universe.
And I actually have had an out of body experience. It was not something I tried to do – it happened spontaneously in a very traumatic experience.
Thanks for sharing William. 🙂

6 Ellie March 26, 2013 at 10:39 pm

HI Cali ….
Woo Hoo for YOU! And I love you have been “feeling” your way into this experience!
Keep us posted! You Go Girl!! 😀

7 Boni Lonnsburry March 27, 2013 at 6:12 am

Hi Ellie,
LOVE your article and couldn’t agree more! I have always taught people that waiting to see if something is “meant to be” was, in your words, BS!

I think the part that most people don’t realize, is they don’t have to “wait” for the response from the universe when they do get lined up with what they want.

Even if the actual “thing” may take a while (in time and space–in the emotional world they already have it), they will always receive “signs” all along the way that it is on it’s way. And if they learn to recognize the “signs”, that can really help!

Thanks for the great article!

In joyous creation,

8 Cali March 27, 2013 at 10:23 am

Absolutely Ellie. ‘FEELING’ is key. I was just telling my mum this last night. As much as I had photos of the house, even me standing in front of it, I needed to get inside. I wanted to feel what it was like to open the door, sit in the rooms, open the refrigerator, etc. – truly EXPERIENCE what it would be like to live there. I told the agent as we entered about how I manifested things and she said…”You want to hold the key?” I held onto that key the entire time I toured the house and it was a wonderful feeling. So very grateful for that experience.

9 Ellie March 27, 2013 at 12:23 pm

Hi Boni ….
Yes! Recognizing the signs that it is happening … So Important – that is what keeps that creation vibration going! 😉
Thanks so much for visiting & sharing!

10 Ellie March 27, 2013 at 12:32 pm

Yes Cali!
Just like Boni is talking about – as you recognize the signs … you amp up the feeling … you amp up the creation! 😀

11 Diane March 27, 2013 at 9:55 pm

Hi Cali, I manifested my dream home quite a few years ago and I didn’t even know I was doing it at the time. I had about $20 in my banking account, I visualized being in the home, gave thanks and followed each urging to take the next step..every door opened including the builder offering to pay my closing cost..Next thing I know me & the kids have moved in and I am on om my knees on the floor of my brand new town home giving thanks..Congratulations on your new home..

12 Ellie March 27, 2013 at 10:26 pm

Hi Diane …
Great Manifesting! Thanks so much for sharing! 🙂

13 Diane March 27, 2013 at 10:45 pm

Hi Ellie, The first thing I noticed was the picture that goes with this article, the leaf was not flowing in the river. And I think that is exactly what happens when I let my BS beliefs take over, the flow stops. I really enjoyed the article & have spent a lot of time learning about my limiting beliefs recently so it was great timing for me.

14 Diane March 27, 2013 at 11:05 pm

Ellie, One day this week I woke up and felt, well nothing much really, numb, neurtal, tired..
I thought you know you don’t have to lose that 30 lbs today, you don’t have to find a dream man today and you don’t have to earn your first million today, all you have to do today is be happy. I just read your free download and oh my goodness there it was Step 3 ! ” the most impotant thing for today is be happy”, Got it!

15 Cali March 27, 2013 at 11:19 pm

Thank You ALL so much for your replies. I can literally feel my vibration shifting.

Boni -YES, the signs. Last night I remembered something I saw in the house that was DEFINITELY a sign that perhaps my love and I WILL find our way back to one another and share this beautiful home together. In the Master Bedroom I placed a photo of the two of us on the nightstand with my journal and had a photo taken of me sitting in a chair reading.

Ellie – as you mentioned when we utter those phrases, the universe takes that as if to mean we’ve given up on our dream. I feel this where my love is concerned. We’ve always come so close but then something comes up to keep us apart. However, when we decide to part ways, the universe somehow finds a way to bring us back together. Seeing that most VIVID sign in the house the other day has me thinking…WHY NOT?

Diane – Thank you sooo much for sharing your story. I was beaming from ear to ear as I read your words. I know this is MY house…OUR house. Whenever I see it from the main road as I’m walking through town I look up and whisper to myself, there’s our house love. Thinking I need to resurrect my dream with the love of my life. **hint hint universe 🙂

16 Ellie March 28, 2013 at 12:01 pm

Diane ….
Yes – it really is all about how you Feel … because how you feel – lets you know what you are vibrating – what you are sending out to the universe.
Relax with this … make it a game. I’m feeling kinda blah … what can I appreciate right now? The more you appreciate – the more you will see in your life to appreciate! 😉

17 Ellie March 28, 2013 at 12:26 pm

Cali –
You never have to resurrect a dream – the universe absolutely knows what you want! Keep yourself in a good feeling place … find lots of things to appreciate … enjoy your day … and you allow the universe to deliver! 😉

18 Cali March 28, 2013 at 12:54 pm

Thanks Ellie. Yes, I do believe the universe has always known, just as I have I suppose. Last summer someone new came into my life and completely caught me off guard. I wasn’t expecting it yet enjoyed the time together, but soon realized it was wrong.

Things fell apart in November and on Thanksgiving Day I was listening to a meditation with Deepak Chopra and he asked..What is your highest intention? I didn’t even have to think. It was to share my life with the one man I have always loved. Despite all that kept us apart, this was the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I fought it though because I didn’t understand HOW it would be possible. We are currently living on opposite ends of the globe. Of course now I know that’s not my job.

My body however was screaming in pain (still is really) that I was out of alignment with my highest intention and purpose. I’ve gone through so much the last couple of years and continue this journey of transformation. I know I need to be REALLY clear and focus on what my heart truly desires, while appreciating all the vast gifts I’ve been given and continue to receive.

19 CJ April 8, 2013 at 9:33 am

Not giving your power away is very important and you are hitting the nail on the head.

I might also say that balancing this with non-attachment, ie the receiving of the thing/goal as proof that you are doing something “right” or “wrong” will add another layer. You’re not broken, you are just creating something and have some tweaking to do like any artist.

20 Neave April 8, 2013 at 7:47 pm

I learned a few years ago to say, ‘It’s on its way.’ Never give up on your dream. Really enjoyed the article and reading all the great comments. Thanks for sharing.

21 Ellie April 9, 2013 at 10:01 pm

Hi CJ …. Life is all about tweaking … we get to tweak and re-tweak and know all of it is an opportunity! 😉

Thanks for sharing ….

22 Ellie April 9, 2013 at 10:04 pm

Hi Neave …
Yes! Never give up on your dream! 😉

Thanks for sharing! 😀

23 Cindy Hanchett April 10, 2013 at 7:35 pm

I love it Ellie! Funny that when I attended your seminar that ‘Happy Dance’ with the “I created that” really stuck with me!!!!! I love what you write and the way you speak it! You speak as a normal person not like some professor who wants to use these terms no one ever understands. Remember the old ‘back pack’ way of life you taught us? Well you were so right! I love the way I live with all the encouragement and advice you have given me. That good old gut instinct wherein I know what I can do! That vibration that I send out that I know I can create that (whatever I need at that time) and know through what you have shared with me that I can do it and create it. Guess I am in ‘Cindyism Belief System’ which I love because with my vibrations that I send out and receive which I have learned from you and you installed within me … my ‘BS’ has turned into a happy ‘CBS’! I have to say you have turned so much around in my life that everything is positive (even those times when things may not happen when I want them to…I know they will) and I won’t give up! I love your teachings, advice and the words you put out there it really makes everyday such a wonderful day; or changes a day that may not start out that great but once I stop, look, listen and reach down within myself with your words of wisdom I know I can achieve what I need to achieve. Thank you for all the confidence you have given me and I love doing the “Happy Dance” and knowing I create good things that not only effect myself but other’s too. You’re a great inspiration and please keep it coming I love it!

24 Ellie April 10, 2013 at 10:43 pm

Cindy …. So happy to *see* you here! 😀

I Love the CBS – Cindyism Belief System! It really is all about how we choose to see our lives. If we see ourselves as victims – we have landed in the BS! 😉
The more we stay true to our dreams, view everything as an opportunity … and continue to find things to appreciate … The more joy-filled this journey is!
My passion is all about others learning and living this … So it bring me great joy to hear what you have expressed to me. Thank you for sharing!

Big Hugs to You! 😀

25 Jessica June 12, 2013 at 11:23 am

This is such an empowering article and is 100% true! It’s no use thinking ‘all’s well that ends well’ or ‘what will be, will be’. Both these statements are admitting defeat. Unless you want to be defeated – it’s important to take charge, rather than being, as you say… blown around like a leaf in the wind!

26 Ellie Walsh June 13, 2013 at 12:07 am

Hi Jessica …
Welcome! Thanks so much for sharing! 😀

27 Don @ BreathofOptimism July 26, 2013 at 12:53 pm

Hmmm….I never thought of it that way but it makes perfect sense. Time to start celebrating everything and not just say, ‘it will happen when it will happen’.

28 Ellie Walsh August 11, 2013 at 2:47 pm

Hi Don …

Celebrate everything … and then everything will be a celebration! 😉

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