Wouldn’t it be nice if…. or Won’t it be nice when….
These are processes that Abraham recommends to visualize what you are desiring.
This process Does Not Work for Me!
The minute I think “Wouldn’t it be nice if… my committee members kick right in rather vehemently and scream “Well it Ain’t!”
Ouch! 
That does not feel good!
OK I’ll try in the other way “Won’t it be nice when….” – “When! When! When!”
Phew! OK I get it – this process does not work for me!
Find What Works For You
Abraham gives lots of processes to help you change your vibrations. (Their book – Ask and It Is Given explains these processes). And they say find and use the processes that works for you.
Through my personal experience and working with clients – I have fine-tuned some of these processes and created some of my own.
Each person is unique – each perspective is unique… What works for one does not mean it will work for another. If it did – we could all stop talking about this and many other things – as we would already have all the answers.
This diverse world is filled with as many different perspectives as it is with people! That is what makes this journey filled with the adventure it presents to us!
And… because something worked for you 2 years ago – does not mean it will work for you today. We are ever changing – ever expanding. I absolutely see things different today – than even just 1 year ago – maybe even 1 day ago!
No One Has Your Answers….
…. Only You Do!
I know there are people out there telling you what you should do…. Therapists who tell you “this is what works”…. coaches, counselors, websites, etc…. spurting they have The Secret that will work for you! Follow this plan and you will receive all these benefits ______ (fill in the blank)
I’m not knocking all these people – as there truly are some Fantastic therapists, coaches, counselors, etc…. with Fabulous messages!
But if someone tells you they have your answers, they have the magic formula that you need to follow….. RUN!
The first thing I tell all my clients, workshop & teleseminar participants is “I Do Not Have YOUR Answers” …. And I tell my coaching clients “I Do Not Want to be Your Coach!” -
That is true – I don’t want people to depend on me… I want to guide people to their own inner voice, to their own intuition. When you tap into your own internal, universal guidance system – you have then tapped into the Best Coach for You!
How to find what works for you….
Try the process, formula, etc… and then FEEL.
If it feels good to you – then it is good for you!
This is where we can get off track – We read or hear about a process – we do it – it doesn’t feel good – then we say “I must be doing something wrong” NO that isn’t it – That process does not resonate with you and that is AOK!
Remember – You are a Unique Being….
When I came upon my internal conflict with the “Wouldn’t it be nice” process – I did not freak out – I did not beat myself up… I thought it was good that I was aware enough of my own guidance that I knew…. stay away from this one – this one doesn’t work for you Ellie….
I can visualize – I can daydream and see myself in the middle of those desires I am wanting… I just can’t use that phrase! Actually I use a NLP technique that I write about in my new book “Tell A New Story – Change You Life” – (yes that ebook will be out soon)
FEEL… FEEL… FEEL…
Be aware of how you feel… feel & think – think & feel. The more you are aware of what feels good to you – the more you are tapping into your own guidance system.
Try the process and then be aware of how you feel – You will then be able to fine-tune what works for you. Stop looking outside of you for your answers – they lie within you.
If a coach, counselor, therapist, book is guiding you to understand how you can tap into the power of you – then you are on the right track… And you will know if you are on the right track by how you FEEL about it! 
You are a Unique, Power-filled, Magnificent Creator…
Your Inner Voice is the Best Coach for You!
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"There are No Mistakes..... Only Discoveries!" TM ~ Ellie Walsh
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Outstanding, Ellie! It took me a long time to realize that there is no one person or organization that has all of “the truth” or “the way”. It’s inside of us – while others can help to bring it out, they are all just fingers pointing to the moon (as I believe the Buddha said).
Of course, some of those moons they are pointing to aren’t always where I want to go.
Hi Lyman…
I spent many years looking outside of me for my answers…
Funny how we forget “If it feels good for me then – it is good for me!”
Hugs,
Ellie
Yes, Ellie…every person has to ‘figure it out’ for themselves, because there isn’t a one-size-fits-all.
Personally, I LOVE the “Wouldn’t It Be Nice…” game that Abraham suggests. It has worked for me so many times, I’ve lost count! In ‘07, I used it to generate a big contract with a high tech company. So…it does work for some of us!
While I am sad to hear that it doesn’t work for you, I am happy to hear you didn’t take that lying down but chose to find what DID work for you! May all our clients choose to do the same!! :^)
Many blessings,
Nancy
@affirmingspirit
Hi Nancy
Ahhh don’t be sad that it doesn’t work from me – I’m thrilled! Thrilled that I know how to “Feel” my way through life instead of “Think”
I always recommend this process to clients and for many it absolutely works…
Thanks so much for stopping by and commenting – hope to continue to see you here… and also at Twitter!
Thanks for this! I’ve spent a lot of time trying to do it all the way the books say and blaming myself when it doesn’t work for me. It wasn’t until I read The Attraction Distraction that I finally started to get it, and really understand how the Law of Attraction works. It’s nice to know that I’m not alone in having to figure out how it use it in a way that works for me.
Hi Ruth
We all need to find what works for each of us…
Life is not “one size fits all”
Glad you hung in there till you found what works for You!
all the processes or guides are from experience of some people, so they perhaps don’t work for you. but they provide a good chance for you to develop your own process.
To pay attention to breath while meditation doesn’t work well for me, instead, I found to feel that I was flying and staying in the air can make me relaxed very quickly and deeply.
The true wisdom comes from within.
money-attraction
“The true wisdom comes from within”
YES! I agree – thanks for sharing!
Hi Ellie,
First of all: a strong hug to you and my best wishes for this year.
I agree so much with the content of this article! Meditation is an example. Lots of books, people, sites, tell you THE way to meditate. However, lots of people meditate in lots of different ways and what’s important is that they find their own way that works best. Of course that also includes the possibility that meditation does NOT work for some!
Freedom is requirement number ONE to be happy. We can’t depend on anybody and on anything to be happy. Whoever claims to have THE truth or to be THE guru is not as generous as a guru should be, is not as truthful as a guru should be, is not humble enough to deserve our trust.
I specially respect and admire those people like yourself, Aaron, Gary, Lyman, Shauna and so many others of our friends, who simply share their experience in the hope that it will help the others. You (we) share what it has worked for yourselves and it’s up to the reader to try it or not, to follow it or not. That is honest and generous.
Cheers,
Patricia
Hi Patricia
Thanks so much for your comment!
“Honest & Generous” – I do believe if we follow that – we vibrate that and then all involved are truly Free!
Big Hug back to you and wishing you a Super 2009!!
Thank you, Ellie!
Beautiful sentence from you! I loved it.