Surprised that I would be talking about “making” something work?
“Making it Work” — Sounds like a forced action doesn’t it?
If you know me just a little bit — you know I certainly would not be preaching forced action…
So why this kind of talk on the last day of 2010?
I’ve been seeing lots of attention on what doesn’t work… Some are saying go back over this year and see what didn’t work… what you did wrong… what went wrong….. and then you will be able to make it work. Really?
I hear talk that goes like this “My job doesn’t work for me… My relationship doesn’t work… My money situation doesn’t work… My life doesn’t work… – I need to find a way to Make it Work.” Really?
Lots of talk about what doesn’t work…
How is that working out for you?
Here is how the Law of Attraction works — “I attract to myself whatever I put my focus, energy or attention on… whether negative or positive”
Seems to me all that energy, attention and focus on what doesn’t work …. is working – just as it is suppose to!
Now I know…. we all want our lives to work … and when we say that — what we mean is we want the things we desire to show up for us. And… none of us are purposely calling to us situations that don’t work… yet that is indeed what the majority of people do!
So here is how to turn it around: ( How to Make It Work )
#1) STOP talking about what doesn’t work! Stop putting so much of your attention in that not working arena!
#2) START talking about what Does Work! Things do work for you don’t they? That is where you want your focus…. Why? Well first of all … doesn’t that feel better — Doesn’t it feel better to talk about what works well for you… If you put your focus on what works…. then your vibration is calling more of what works to you!
#3) Make Peace with What Is – What is – is …. We can’t change history… Making peace does not mean you have to approve of what when on… It doesn’t mean you have to deem it OK. When you make peace with something… you are letting it go. When you continue to grapple with it — you are holding the wrongness or injustice of it within your vibration… Let it Go…
#4) Find the Opportunities – Every situation has an opportunity within it. I know… at first that isn’t easy to think when you are in the middle of something that you don’t like! If you will just take that tiny step back… and just acknowledge – “OK somewhere there is an opportunity here for me… and I am willing to allow it to surface”. That step back will start to shift your vibration… and will allow the opportunities to show themselves to you.
#5) Pay Attention to How You Feel – Our feelings are an indicator of the vibrations we are sending out… Too many times we are seeing life from old habits of reactions and old habits of thoughts…. These “old stories” are learned behavior that we have acquired from other people. Paying attention to how I feel … gives me the space to re-examine the thoughts I am having about this particular situation and decide if I want to alter those thoughts and honor my inner voice.
#6) Make a Commitment - A commitment to your job, your partner, your parents? No … No … No … A Commitment to You! A commitment to your inner voice — A commitment to become aware of the “old stories” that are running through your head that are not in alignment with your own inner voice. A commitment to follow the steps above so you can align with your inner calling.
In 2011 let’s put our attention on what does work…. on the things we appreciate…. on uplifting others and ourselves.
In early December we just finished up a 12 week workshop on Creating The Life You Desire. The above steps were part of that workshop…. and the people who made a commitment to themselves are the people who have experienced the biggest changes in their lives.
When you plant a tomato plant… you do not have a full grown plant filled with ripe tomatoes in a day … not even in a week. There is a gestation period before you have that full grown tomato plant.
Plant your seed now for 2011 — the seed of living the life you desire… the seed of aligning with your own special unique voice… As you go through your gestation period … keep your focus on the things you desire… on the things that are working in your life… and you will live a life beyond your wildest dreams!
My gift to you…. is a process, that we used in our workshop, that will help you plant that seed for 2011 – Out With The Old – In With The New -
(if that link doesn’t work copy and paste this in your browser) – http://livingthelawofattraction.com/ebooks/Old_to_New_2010.pdf
In January 2011 – I will be opening my newest website ReTrain Your Brain For Success to the public… where we will be talking about how the Law of Attraction works in your life … And how our brains work. This has been the missing piece many have stumbled on when trying to apply what they have learned about LOA.
If you would like to receive information and be notified when the website will be opening – Please fill in the form below and I will keep you posted!
Wishing You a Wonder-Filled 2011!
"There are No Mistakes..... Only Discoveries!" TM ~ Ellie Walsh